I’m driven towards good health, freedom, new skills, and have reached financial independence through my attraction to women.
Melpomene is the Greek muse of tragedy and drama.
Sexual attraction might be one of the strongest sources of energy that we know. Some of the world’s most impressive organizations, pieces of art, and buildings were created by men who transmuted sexual attraction into creative thinking and hard work. This is a principle that also seems to apply on a smaller scale in my own life. If it hadn’t been for attractive women chances are that I would not only be illiterate but also lazy, unemployed, unhealthy, unhygienic, and would live under a rock somewhere in the forest. When I am attracted to a woman my mind automatically focuses. The urge to be able to connect to the goal of my desires creates a force that the culture around me doesn’t seem to appreciate and understand. We think that we can learn and grow by spending time in schools and by studying hard, but without the drive to become something in the eyes of a special woman I never saw much point in growing and learning.
The way I learned English is a good example of this. Growing up in Denmark with Danish as my mother tongue I never saw any point in learning English. During my ten years in school, I attended around 4 English lessons a week but only learned between 10 and 20 words. A calculation suggests that I spent around 1600 hours learning English while becoming an expert in keeping myself distracted by learning nothing during class. At the age of twenty-one, I met an attractive English girl in a bar in Copenhagen. Even though we had no way of communicating there were no doubts that we both felt immensely attracted to each other. With a friend translating I managed to invite her out for a date the next day. The next day she and I went out for dinner and had poor conversation, but an amazing time and ended up having great sex. Struggling to communicate with my new girlfriend I managed to learn enough English in a month to have a basic conversation with her. With attraction giving me wings learning English became child’s-play. After three months she caught me kissing another girl at a party and subsequently I had my first real argument in a foreign language. In the following months, I developed my language skills further and a year later she and I broke up during an argument in which I made almost no grammatical mistakes.
Through my urge to win the heart of an attractive woman, I learned more in a matter of weeks than I had learned during ten years of being mentally absent in school. Without this girl, I would never have had the necessary language skills to enter the business school getting a Master’s degree. Without having wasted many years getting a Master’s degree, I would never have been frustrated enough to become a writer. Seen in this perspective I can thank my attraction to this girl for all the exciting things I have done career-wise in my entire adult life.
Attraction has not only motivated me to learn other languages but has made me learn everything that I today regard as important. My urge to win the heart of attractive women has made me learn to read, write, calculate, play the guitar, windsurf, cook, do acrobatics, drive a motorbike, create a business, swim, have kids, become a published author and a thousand other things that shaped my life dramatically. Attraction has made me break a multitude of patterns, has made me reinvent myself many times, travel around the world, and made me work hard to become financially free.
Women are not only giving birth to men but also building them, making them want to be men, and making them want to conquer women. As soon as the little boy is cut from the umbilical cord, he starts searching for the next woman who can stimulate his ego and nourish him emotionally. A man needs a woman to shoot straight, drive fast, hit hard, or make his first million. Most men are great at showing the world that they are free and strong, but inside they are usually confused little boys desperately looking for a woman’s approval. Women are naturally also looking for approval, but surely fewer women have become celebrities or billionaires to conquer men. I have not yet heard of a woman who would be highly motivated by the thought of having scores of male groupies circulating her hotel begging to be used as one of her sex toys.
Even though attraction can feel stimulating and energizing it does not always lead to positive transformation. Throughout my life, many attractive women have made me engage in things that turned my life into a living hell. According to the old Greek myth about Odysseus he once had to travel past the island of the Sirens. The Sirens were dangerous female creatures, who lured passing sailors with their enchanting music and singing voices to shipwreck on the rocky coast of their island. Sirens are seductresses that spell trouble and muses are inspiring women who can lead a man to greatness.
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