
Dating Advice
Love on Your Terms
Few things create better energy than being connected with one or more partners who bring out the best in you. Whether you're single or in a relationship, I can help you navigate the many facets of love and help you find new or additional partners with whom you will connect in an authentic way.
For more than 20 years, I have explored a wide range of dating cultures – from sugardating, poly dating, and swinger dating to power exchange, asexual dating, and lifestyle dating. I have been on sugardates with women from more than 20 countries, gaining insight into the dynamics of the culture. Get in touch if you want to know how unconventional dating cultures can create more love and better matches.

Advice for Sugar Daddies & Sugar Babies
What Is Sugardating?
Sugardating is a relationship dynamic where one partner offers financial support while the other takes responsibility in other areas. Though often compared to prostitution, for me, the appeal of sugardating has never been sexual. Instead, I value meeting partners who are not seeking a conventional relationship with children, a house, and a white picket fence. A typical sugar baby is looking for an experienced, well-established man who has his life together, enjoys meaningful conversations, and has an exciting lifestyle. Ironically, my most expensive sugar babies were my ex-wives — except they didn’t see themselves that way and took my financial support for granted. This led to dependency, financial taboos, and drama, ultimately damaging the relationships. In my view, an honest sugardating arrangement is far healthier than a traditional relationship built on financial illusions.
Room for Love?
At first glance, sugardating may seem like a rational culture, leaving little space for love or deep emotional connections. However, in my experience, the opposite is true. When both partners have a clear agreement on what they bring to the relationship, there are fewer taboos. Fewer taboos lead to fewer misunderstandings, which means less drama. Less drama creates more time to enjoy each other’s company, making room for love, adventure, and romance.
Sugardating advice for singles and couples
I work with couples who are looking for an additional partner or singles who are not looking for a traditional relationship. I always tailor my guidance to the client's specific needs. These are some of the most common areas we cover:
✔ Where and how do you find a compatible partner
✔ Which type of sugardating suits your personality and lifestyle
✔ How to create a dating profile that attracts the right matches
✔ How to set expectations to create a positive and dynamic relationship
✔ How to avoid common mistakes in sugardating
✔ How sugardating works in different cultures and countries
✔ How to avoid wasting time on unproductive dating
If you want to learn more about my approach to sugardating, you can read the following post in my blog: "How Money Bought Me Love."
ON A SUGARDATE
The picture is from a sugardate where Maria invited me out for dinner in Copenhagen. She was the one paying, which made her my sugarmama. As my sugarmama, it was only natural that she had certain expectations for how I should perform when we got home.
